If a woman in difficult financial circumstances treats extracting money from men or being kept as a stepping stone for self-improvement—like treating it as a startup project—then upon success, she should "get off the boat," remember her original intentions, reinvent herself anew, and pursue a new, happy life. That would be good.
However, most people cannot achieve this. Once accustomed to measuring relationships through money, viewing everything as transactions, they will be unable to communicate normally with other men in this lifetime or enter normal relationships.
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