Why do most Chinese men have a strong desire for lying flat? Because on one side is the entire social operating system, treating men as tools, as bulls, as fuel, requiring you to bear loans, consume, and contribute the most valuable decades of your life through hard work, hoping you will quickly perish in old age, while using various means to maintain stability to guard against you. On the other side, relatives and parents are still using traditional values, urging you to get married and have children, merely for the purposes of "not being looked down upon by others" and "completing a task," but they cannot provide you with the resources to climb up and turn your situation around. Ultimately, men are completely reduced to being tools.