In middle age, one must understand that in life, you should not blame anyone. If you get along, then enjoy each other's company; if not, maintain your distance. Only those whose souls resonate can appreciate the vastness of your journey, while those with differing views will find communication to be a struggle.

Between people, it begins with fate, is respected for talent, aligns with character, lasts with kindness, and ultimately concludes with integrity.
Everyone's growth experience is different. Don't cultivate yourself in someone else's world, and don't impose your expectations on others in your own mind. Not everyone is the way you like, and at the same time, you are not the way everyone likes.
The right people will eventually meet after going around in circles, while the wrong people will drift apart after swaying aimlessly. In this life of ours, there’s no need to deliberately encounter anyone, nor is there a need to forcefully hold onto anyone. The most comfortable way for people to interact is for me to treat you with sincerity but not to be attached to you. Live in fate rather than in relationships; stepping out of obsession is liberation!