A very touching quote: "Not getting married means no companion in old age; getting married doesn't guarantee you'll live to old age. Not working hard enough means no money for retirement; working too hard might make retirement unnecessary. Some paths are hard to take, and you feel unwilling; once taken, you end up wounded. Life is like this, no matter what you choose, there will be regrets. No matter how carefully you plan, it can't compare to the arrangements of fate."

The cat in the alley is very free, but has no home. The dog inside the wall has a home, but must bow its head for life. Life is a multiple-choice question, and no matter what you choose, there will be regrets.
But please remember, no matter what you choose, prioritize earning a living before seeking love, love yourself before loving others. A person without financial ability is doomed beyond redemption.