My portfolio was down 80% and my boyfriend said he’s leaving me

“You’ve lost everything, you’re irresponsible, I can’t do this anymore”
I was calm
“Babe it’s unrealised. I haven’t sold. Technically I haven’t lost anything”
He started packing his bags
“We can’t pay rent this month”
“That’s a liquidity issue not a solvency issue” I said. “Very different things”
He threw his phone at me
“You put our savings into a coin called PENGUIN”
“It’s a legitimate investment thesis based on community driven momentum” I said
He told me he’s moving back in with his mother
That’s when something hit me harder than the portfolio
His mother’s house is in a state with no capital gains tax
I asked if I could come too
He blocked me on everything.