Last night, with nothing to do, I was cracking sunflower seeds in the living room, and I just threw the shells on the dining table. That’s the premise.

Before going to bed, my wife asked me to put the sunflower seed shells in the trash can, saying this was the third time she reminded me.
Then I muttered, "Can't you just do it directly if you have time to say it three times?" My wife got angry and scolded me.
Actually, guys and girls handle things differently. Maybe I would just do it directly, while she might think I have bad habits and want me to clean up after myself.
Seeing this, you might think we’re about to argue, another century-long battle, but actually no. I just smiled and let it go.
Guys tend to solve problems casually and don’t care much about the aftermath or who caused it. Girls are more detail-oriented and might think that if they keep helping you handle things, you’ll develop bad habits.
This is a difference in personality between men and women, so there’s really no need to get angry. Small issues shouldn’t cause a big fight between two people. Maybe next time I’ll just toss it on the table again, and it’s fine to handle it afterward. That’s life. Don’t get into a huge fuss over trivial matters, and don’t let her feel like she has to accept my way.