Any act of seeking comfort will not make us grow: hangovers, travel, or even chatting with fren only make us feel safe in the cocoon of long-term stay. Growth is actually a difficult reflection and contemplation, it requires abandoning all the beautiful words told to others and oneself, facing the current imperfections and weaknesses, even repeatedly breaking, cutting, and overturning all previous concepts and understanding before reorganizing. Only then will we understand that growth requires change.