When others provoke you, you have the ability to destroy them, but you choose to let go—that's called tolerance;

Without that ability, when others provoke you, choosing to forgive is called cowardice.

Only when you hold the initiative do you have the qualification to talk about tolerance.
Endurance without the initiative is essentially helplessness.
Improve your skills first, then your temper; strength is the foundation of tolerance.
Not all concessions are weakness; they are wisdom after weighing the options.