Why do you always unconsciously bow half a head when facing someone with a strong aura? Or even pretend to be imposing and speak confrontationally? Humility and arrogance are essentially your heart being swept away by the other person's aura. You think it's a lack of skill, but actually it's your "energy level" insufficient. I have a friend who manages a fund in Shanghai, overseeing billions. Last year, the market was bleak, and he suffered from sleepless nights, losing hair in clumps. People making tens of thousands of dollars a minute were driven to the brink of collapse by anxiety. His wife forcefully signed him up for a tea art class. The first lesson didn't teach how to brew tea; instead, the teacher quietly ground ink for ten minutes. The rustling sound and the undeniably gentle gaze made him, accustomed to fast-paced finance life, involuntarily put down his phone. The teacher said, "These ten minutes are as long as a meeting, but why do they feel different? Because your heart has been pulled back from the restless state by the sound of grinding ink, beginning to stabilize. This is a 'field' shift." That day, they only learned one thing: quietly boiling a pot of water. Feeling the coldness of the water, the temperature of the flame, listening to the water go from silence to bubbling. When my friend truly focused all his attention on that pot of water, the persistent K-line charts and client complaints in his mind surprisingly faded away. He finally understood that to maintain composure in front of someone with a strong aura, it's not about learning speaking skills or dress codes, but about whether you can build your own "energy barrier." The story that followed was even more astonishing. He started to dedicate an unwavering hour each day to "tea time." Last year, not only did he recover his losses, but he also created the best performance in his department against the trend. When facing even the most assertive clients, he can remain calm and composed. Because he finally understood that a person's aura is not determined by clothing or status, but by whether their internal energy is abundant. When you have your own "barrier," the external storms are hard to shake you.